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Friday, 28 November 2025

November: My Birthday, Mum's Ashes and More

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Fitness at 65: Is This Mutton using a weighted sled at the gym


Dear friends.  November is my birthday month. Quite a lot was occurring, including a nasty old virus. 

Saturday Nov 1

Versace exhibition and lunch with some Kettlewell Colour Club friends. The exhibition was better than expected.  



Sunday Nov 2

Wet start. Brightened up. Did forest walk. Planted front pots with tulips. Did roast chicken. Started feeling unwell - achy. Went to bed early. 


Monday Nov 3

Woke up feeling poorly. After a bath and rest, felt a little better. Got up and had an easy day reading and writing a blog post.

Tuesday Nov 4

Felt a lot better. Did walk, J did part of it. Saw the longhorn cattle. 


Weds Nov 5

Did walk with J, pace was quite brisk. Felt tired afterwards.  Got progressively more tired. Think I may have a cold now, damn it. It was so warm today I was walking in a t-shirt! 

Thurs Nov 6

Not a very good Samsung energy score, still feel a bit rundown. Decided not to walk or do any sport.  Planted tulips until it started raining. Did blog maintenance and some tidying. New tote bag came from Nephele Bags, made with offcuts.  Been wanting a red one for ages. 



Fri Nov 7

My birthday! 65.  Had some lovely presents from J including a ring, trainers and a purple handbag.  Card with money from Mum. Almost afraid to open it. Hand made cards from grandchildren Rosie and Olive. 

Went to Pilates.  Had dinner at 45 Jermyn St (Fortnum and Mason). Dressed crab followed by sole Meniere with chips.  Delicious. Dessert menu was tempting but had no room! 

Then saw The Weir with Brendan Gleeson. V good. It's set in a pub on a stormy night in Ireland, with a cast of five. 


Sat Nov 8

My cold is now manifesting which is a shame as we'd planned a "discharge battery" bike ride. 

Sun Nov 9

Determined to do a decent walk. Weather quite good. Walked 5 miles in forest. Met children and grandchildren for lunch at local pub. Roast beef. Was very busy as it's next to the war memorial where there is always a big parade for Remembrance. 


Mon Nov 10

Rainy. Went in town but discovered I had left phone behind.  It meant I missed an appointment because I couldn't remember the number of the building, and although I walked up and down the very long road a few times, I couldn't recognise it. Aaargh. 

Tues Nov 11

The air is stiff with disapproval because I turned down a bike ride. I'm seeing personal trainer. I was urged to cancel but I can't, I cancelled last week when I was unwell and can't let him down again.

Weds Nov 12

Very mild. Did bike ride to Lee Valley to discharge battery. Saw a field full of goats. Very low today thinking about mum. 



Thurs Nov 13

Did walk. Had try on of 4 pairs of trousers.  Shared it on Stories. They all got sent back. 

Disaster with food shopping delivery. Used a different supplier - a well known prestigious brand. Was notified it was running late but then no updates and by now it was 2.5 hours over the slot.  Rang retailer,  they couldn't seem to track the driver. Had to get fish and chips. Expect the delivery to be rescheduled tomorrow. 

Friday Nov 14

Refund now pending for shopping delivery and no slots available till 6pm so will have to do shopping in person. That's a throwback! Went to Epping and Tesco, it was pouring with rain.

Saturday Nov 15

Went to Good Housekeeping Live at the Business Design Centre.  It was bigger and better than last year except for the speaker programme, which was more tempting during the week when I guess they have fewer visitors. Had a fun day with Annemarie, starting with my makeup being done in a session I booked with L'Oreal. Bought a couple of things from the Christmas market for gifts.



Sunday Nov 16

Did roast lamb, which took longer than expected as it hadn't been precooked sous vide, so lunch was later. Did a shortish walk as I'm still a bit under the weather. Started two re-watches, Strike and Slow Horses. Both excellent series's. 

Monday Nov 17

Had to let Penny down, was going to meet her and Bill at Tate Britain but I’m not very good company. Sad as I haven't seen her for probably a year.

Tuesday Nov 18

More energy today. Had good session with trainer at gym. Now up to 82.5kgs of weight on the sled, which I push and pull, trying not to look like a dressage horse!

Went into London for Harley Street appointment. Had Profhilo in face and neck. It's lots of eye watering injections which stimulate collagen production.  Saw visible results after the first session. Below: Christmas lights in Marylebone 

Big Cloudflare outage means my blog's link-up didn't work for much of the day.  These outages (I always think of it as an outrage) are more and more frequent. 

Weds Nov 19

Cold with sleet. Wore new puffer coat for first time on walk to South Woodford (3 miles) to get a few groceries.  Wrote my list for our two night stay in Plymouth. We're driving down tomorrow.  On Friday we'll scatter Mum's ashes followed by dinner with my brother and his family.

Thurs Nov 20

Long drive to Plymouth.  Quite a bad bruise from the Profhilo on chin.  Staying at Boringdon Hall, looking very festive. Poor weather. Bit of an issue with EV charging.  Somehow missed the entrance to charging at Leigh Delamere. Then, at Exeter Services, which has a lot of chargers, most of them were roped off for roadworks. Cars were driving round looking for chargers. Fortunately the workmen opened up some of them. A bit stressful as we were desperate for a charge at that point. 

Dined in Brasserie, had wagyu burger with truffle chips, and a rather disappointing black forest cheesecake. 


Fri Nov 21

Slept poorly, too hot. Dreading today. Had a massage in the morning. Day seemed to drag until it was time to go to the old crematorium  (now closed). Stopped off at Mum's house to pick up a few mementos.  The actual scattering of her ashes was easier than I expected.  The lovely funeral director scattered them in the shape of a cross. She had specifically wanted to be scattered in the Garden of Remembrance, with my late brother. It's a lovely sheltered spot. We had a pleasant family dinner in the evening.



Saturday Nov 22

Pouring with rain. Left at 9.45, home by 4. Had coffee and did a quick charge at Salmon's Leap,  Buckfastleigh, which has a lovely farm shop. Bought some bacon for tomorrow.  Driving conditions atrocious.  Did second charge and had a hot chocolate at Reading (another favourite). Home at 4pm. Watched Slow Horses, Pluribus and Furia.

Sunday Nov 23

Sunshine after the rain! Went for 5 mile walk, great to do after 3 days' inactivity. Christmas tree is up in the nearby high street, next to the new sign. 

Had lunch at the King's Head,  roast turkey.


Monday Nov 24

Read an interesting post by Erin at Cracker Crumb life about her 10 modern classics. Added some to my Amazon book list. Did walk. Didn't manage to do a shoot as I waited until afternoon and the light was too poor by then,  so didn't have a style blog post ready for tomorrow. 

Tuesday Nov 25

Sunny intervals,  cold. Went to the gym. Lots of shoulder exercises.  Pulled the equivalent of 14 stone (88kg) on the sled. Managed to produce a style post, published a bit later than normal with the link-up.

Weds Nov 26

Had hair coloured and cut. Asked for it to be less blonde now summer is over, but emerged with it a bit darker than I expected. 

Thursday Nov 27 

Washed hair as I didn't like the blow dry very much. It looks lighter than it did yesterday. Relieved. Did a blog shoot on the subject of trending colour Brown and then ironing.  So dreary outside I stayed in all day.

What I've Been Reading Lately


What We've Been Watching 

Down Cemetery Road (Apple) - 3 out of 5 stars 

Starring Emma Thompson and Ruth Wilson, this is based on the book by Mick Herron (Slow Horses). I am not very keen TBH. It's a convoluted but unsatisfying plot; some of the characters seem cartoon-esque while others are taking it seriously, and it seems to move at a glacial pace. A bit meh, although husband likes it. 

Pluribus (Apple) - 4 out of 5 stars

If you don't have Apple and want some ROI to justify it, this, plus Slow Horses, The Morning Show (first series) and Blackbird make it worthwhile.  

Pluribus, or as I like to call it "Plur 1 Bus" (look at the graphic) gets right down to business within minutes. Individuals no longer exist, we are all part of a hive mindset with shared knowledge and memories.  Millions died as this happened, globally. Just a handful of people are impervious to the virus, or whatever caused it. One of them is the bad tempered and cynical writer Carol (Rhea Seehorn). I was initially sceptical as to how several episodes could be squeezed out of this, once Carol met the rest of the world's unaffected, but it continues to grip us. 

Furia (Prime) - 4 out of 5 stars

Not new but a good discovery. This is a classy Norwegian thriller funded by several countries. Ragna is a fiercely courageous cop who infiltrates a nationalistic subculture following a killing in Norway. Ragna's journey pulls her into a spiral of hatred while a terrorist plot targeting the heart of Europe is revealed. Fast moving and stylish. 

Dark Winds (Now) - 4 out of 5 stars

Second series of the 1970s drama focused on a small tribal team policing the Navajo, sometimes working uncomfortably with the Sheriff's team. Sensitively handled with a charismatic performance from Zahn McClarnon as Joe Leaphorn. There's a fantastic episode where Leaphorn, one arm out of action, drags a younger,  violent  suspect across the desert on foot. Leaphorn suspects this man was involved in the murder of his son several years ago. 

The Eubanks, BBC iPlayer - 4 out of 5 stars

A documentary which preceded the boxing rematch between Nigel Benn Jnr and Chris Eubank Jnr. It's painful to watch the proud Eubank Snr struggle with the knowledge that his son has to lose a dangerous amount of weight through dehydration to qualify for the match. Last time he nearly died. Another son died a few years ago. Eubank Snr has been relentless in campaigning to stop matches when a competitor is injured. He is haunted by what happened in one of his own matches. I'm always amazed that boxing still exists, and that celebrities swarm the bouts. 

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Tuesday, 25 November 2025

Life Lately: Retro Dress, Nails and More

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Gail Hanlon from Is This Mutton in patterned retro style dress and aqua moto jacket with long blue boots

Dear friends. It's been a busy time lately, with a trip to Plymouth last week for the scattering of Mum's ashes, and another trip this week. 

I've been buying Christmas presents and studiously avoiding Black Friday deals  (if you weren't going to buy it at full price, don't buy it!).  I've bought a few new beauty products recently and will cover them today.

RETRO DRESS WITH LONG BOOTS

This is my second "retro style" dress from Madcap England. It's sleeveless but I find they work better in autumn/winter with a jacket and maybe a silky roll neck underneath, as the material is not what I'd consider for summertime.  It's a silky type of scuba material. It skims over curves, lumps/bumps.

This dress isn't in Spring colours as such but I added some brightness with my Roxy in aqua (Kettlewell) and red handbag  (Etsy).  The suede boots are old, from Boden. 



It's shorter than I would normally wear, but I think that's fine with opaque tights and boots. 


Tomorrow I'm off to have my hair done, having let two months elapse which means my roots are pretty awful. 


NEW BEAUTY BUYS

My nails and cuticles are finally in a good place, thanks to products from Manucurist  (serum and oil). and taking Biotin daily. 

I bought some non-gel nail polishes from a new brand, Harriet Westmoreland. Harriet is well known for her "clean" nails: short, natural looking and beautifully manicured (Nigella Lawson is a fan).  I bought the basecoat, topcoat and two of the Vanilla Gloss Polishes.  


It looks darker in the bottle than it actually is.



I can't resist a beauty box, and the Boots Show Stopper box caught my eye.  It was £90, but well worth it because there's very little I wouldn't use, or don't like.  I'm already using the Grown Alchemist Polisher and Boots Berry Lip Sleep balm, plus the Caroline Herrera perfume La Bomba and Ole Henriksen Pout Preserve Lip Treatment in Strawberry Glimmer. 



I've also bought a couple more pieces for autumn/winter, a brown suede skirt and brown cord jeans. I'll show you these next week.

How do you like your nails? Long with nail art, or short and subtle?  Do tell in the comments.

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Her Many Faces by Nicci Cloke

 

Is This |Mutton's book spotlight is on Her Many Faces by Nicci Cloke.

Dear friends. I'm on the blog tour today for an intriguing thriller which examines a woman accused of murder from five different perspectives.  

In Her Many Faces, we hear the viewpoints of her barrister, a journalist covering the case, her childhood friend, her lover and her father.  It makes for a gripping account where we can never be fully convinced of our own viewpoint on Katie Cole.

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Thursday, 20 November 2025

I'm Spoiling You with These Books: November 2025

 Old woman reading. Date: 1820 - 1833. Institution: Rijksmuseum. Provider: Rijksmuseum. Courtesy of Unsplash.


Dear friends. I bring you no fewer than three 5 star books this month. They are very different from each other.  

Discover the conscientious Norwegian detective Wisting; the loner who lives for the nightclub, and a determined little girl in Scotland who became one of the most significant players in Formula One racing. 

As always, most of the books were provided several months prior to publication from NetGalley in return for an honest review.  I don't blog about them until they are available to you.  Books with an asterisk are those I bought myself. 

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Tuesday, 18 November 2025

Coat Weather!

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Is This Mutton shows off an addition to her winter coat collection, a pink coral coat from Boden bought on eBay

Dear friends. We've gone from 18 degrees to 7 in just a few days. It's finally coat weather! 

I've added a new colour to my coat collection: a pink coral wool coat from Boden which I bought for £37 on ebay.  

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Tuesday, 11 November 2025

Nothing to Wear!

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Is This Mutton owns up to a problem that's far from unique. A wardrobe full of clothes, but nothing to wear.

Dear friends.  I'm sure we've all been there. A wardrobe full of clothes and an event to attend. But suddenly you can't find anything to wear.

This happened to me on my birthday. We were going out for dinner followed by the theatre. Originally I'd planned to wear purple. One of my husband's presents was a gorgeous purple bag. 

But I'd worn purple at a pop concert the week before and wasn't motivated to wear it again. 

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Sunday, 9 November 2025

Sunday Book Update

Is This Mutton's new Sunday Book Update


Dear friends. A new post for Sundays in association with Sunday Salon with Deb at ReaderbuzzKimberly's Sunday Post at Caffeinated Reviewer and Lisa's Sunday Bookends at Boondock Ramblings. 

I've indicated when you'll be able to see my review here on Is This Mutton. 

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Tuesday, 4 November 2025

What I Wore to the Versace Retrospective

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Gail Hanlon from Is This Mutton in purple and yellow print trousers bought on ebay

Dear friends. I was not a Versace fan back in the day. I thought his designs were a bit gaudy. But after seeing the wonderful Retrospective in London,  I've changed my mind.

There are lots of bright colours,  yes (and many of them in my Spring colours), but also some sublime tailoring and quite subdued outfits you could wear to the office. Princess Diana was a fan, as was Elton John and of course Elizabeth Hurley.

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Friday, 31 October 2025

October: A Big Birthday, ABC and More

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Swans in the Lee Valley Country Park

Dear friends. A busy month to share. October included a big birthday for Mr Mutton, a school reunion in Plymouth and seeing the group ABC with an orchestra in Bournemouth. I also started using a personal trainer again, gave blood and did a one day First Aid course. 

Read on for TV recommendations.  

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Tuesday, 28 October 2025

Life Lately: Teal, Tartan, Violets

 & Tuesday Twirl 

Is This Mutton in corduroy teal dress with aqua accessories

Dear friends. A mixed hors d'oeuvres today. I'm sharing which outfit I wore to the school reunion, a recent cord dress acquisition, a perfume search and more.

First up is a soft corduroy dress.  It's exactly the type of dress I look for in winter:  not too long and with a gathered waist that helps create definition where none exists.  Plus corduroy is On Trend, not that most of us care too much about that. 

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Tuesday, 21 October 2025

Choose My Outfit for the School Reunion

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Is This Mutton invites readers to choose one of three colourful outfits to wear to a school reunion

Dear friends. It's a big day for me on Saturday, a school reunion! It's been organised by me and my bestie from the sixth form. We were reunited last year when I began tracking down our alumni. 

I'm looking for your help to select my outfit. 

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Thursday, 16 October 2025

October Book Reviews

 

Is This Mutton's Book Reviews for October 2025

Dear friends.  An exciting month for me as I was nominated for UK Book Blogger of the Year.  I must add however that it was a LONG long list and I didn't make the short list.  I didn't expect to,  because although I review books extensively on NetGalley, I'm not a dedicated book blogger. 

I simply read books and share my thoughts with you because I know most of you are avid readers.

Many thanks to those who voted for me!

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Tuesday, 14 October 2025

Stay Dry in Style

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Is This Mutton on the joys of staying dry in a purple raincoat

Dear friends. I bought this gorgeous purple trench a few weeks ago and still haven't had chance to wear it.  We had a very dry summer and autumn is continuing in the same vein.

But at least I have it for when rain inevitably strikes.

I spotted the trench coat at Hobbs and knew I must act quickly. What I've learnt about purple is that when retailers have any of the bright true purple shade, it flies out of the door.  I don't understand why they don't stock more of it.

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Thursday, 9 October 2025

Rainforest by Michelle Paver

 Is This Mutton reviews Rainforest by best selling author Michelle Paver


Dear friends. Today's book spotlight is on a novel that sends chills down the spine.  Author Michelle Paver has done it again with another brilliantly researched book that is both eerie and thought provoking.

A few years I read her book Thin Air, about a mountaineering expedition that went wrong. I still think about it to this day.  I immediately read her books Dark Matter and Wakenhyrst.

Several years have elapsed since the last book.  Rainforest is a stunner, and gets 5 stars from me.

Join me on today's blog tour to learn more about the story and the author. 

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Tuesday, 7 October 2025

Warm and Stylish with Lighthouse

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Gail Hanlon from Is This Mutton in Haven jersey and Savannah coat from Lighthouse Clothing

GIFTED COLLABORATION 

Dear friends. I don't often do collaborations with brands but when I was contacted by Belfast based Lighthouse Clothing and looked at their site,  I couldn't resist. I would buy their pieces in a heart beat. 

Lighthouse is a family-focused British brand with a love for practical, stylish layering. 

I chose three garments from the new autumn/winter collection and I was absolutely blown away by the quality. 

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Tuesday, 30 September 2025

Lake District in September

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Is This Mutton at Castlerigg neolithic stone circle in the north of England as she reports on a few days of rest and recovery in the Lake District.

Dear friends. We've been to the Lake District in the north of England for a few days. We enjoyed beautiful autumn weather with plenty of blue skies. We took the bikes, using the new trailer for the first time. It was a good time of rest and recovery. 

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Saturday, 20 September 2025

Extraordinary Women of the Silent Generation

 Remembering My Mother June Tyler,  1932 - 2025


Dear friends. It's a sad but conversely a joyous time for my family as we celebrate the life of June Tyler, née Lovis.

The loss of a much loved family member will always be sad, particularly as it was so very sudden. Earlier in the day she had been texting  (EE were always amazed at how many texts she sent, at 93), and just a few hours later she had died from the maelstrom that is sepsis, in hospital.

The joyous element is that Mum's end was swift. She had been losing her sight and was terrified of the possibility of a long hospital stay or having to go into a care home. 

We all think our mothers are extraordinary, I'm sure. But the women of the Silent Generation, those born between 1925 and 1945, deserve a special mention and to be remembered. 
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Thursday, 18 September 2025

A New McEwan: September Books

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Is This Mutton reviews latest books for September including What We Can Know by Ian McEwan

Dear friends. 

A new book from Booker prize winning British writer Ian McEwan is always a big event. What We Can Know is published today. I read an advance copy and am pleased to say it's one of his best. 

I also have some other very interesting titles for you featuring memorable women. It's a rare month where three books are awarded 5 stars!

Most were read ahead of publication day thanks to advance copies from NetGalley and the publishers. Those marked with an asterisk were bought by me. 

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Tuesday, 16 September 2025

Pink and Grey: Oh I Say!

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Is This Mutton celebrates the combination of pink and grey


Dear friends. It's a classic colour combination and there's a pink and grey for everyone. We went out for lunch on Sunday and this is what I wore. 

The chinos are in dove grey from Kettlewell, a light neutral which is great for nearly all of us  (those analysed Winter benefit from a darker charcoal grey).  I'm wearing them with a pale peach silky crew neck, Rachel jacket in Confetti and tutti frutti leopard belt, all Kettlewell (I should be on commission!). 

Is This Mutton creates an autumn outfit in pink and grey

The silky tops are perfect for layering as the weather gets colder. They aren't bulky at all. My coral bag is from Pom Pom London and the shoes are old, from Joe Brown's. 


If you've been seasonally analysed, fuchsia with charcoal is perfect for Winter;  for Autumn I'd look at  Antique Rose or Pink Coral with Silver Birch or Light Dove Grey.  A good pink and grey for Summer is Shocking Pink  or Amethyst with Moonstone, Silver or Light Dove Grey.


Makeup:  Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Foundation in Shade 4; Nars Creamy Concealer in 2.3 Madeleine; No 7 Fanomenal Eye Palette; Lancome Hypnose Mascara in black; Bobbi Brown Pot Royge in Calypso Coral;  lipstick English Rose by Max Factor. 


Is pink and grey a go-to combination for you?  Do tell in the comments. 

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